One of the most common overestimations we make is our ability to communicate effectively. Most of us have been communicating since birth to get our message across to others. An infant almost instinctively learns to get mother’s attention when hungry, in need of maintenance or attention. Usually this involves making an annoying noise (crying) until […]
Among the many New Year Resolutions you make this year improving your networking and interpersonal skills should be near the top of the list. Developing a strong social and professional network of friends and associates is essential to achieving most of your career goals. Almost everything you want in the workplace depends on other […]
Making New Year Resolutions is a tradition for most of us. It is sure the hot media topic for the swing week between Christmas and New Year’s Eve. While the mood of Christmas puts most of us in a festive mood, it also causes most of us to be reflective on personal and professional […]
If the question “Should I attend the holiday office party?” even rises to a conscious level you may have more issues than just the office party. Depending on your office culture, office parties may vary from very wild to extremely dull. Most fall somewhere in the middle. Very few office parties leave office […]
As the year gallops towards the finish line, professional and personal stress seems to increase. All of a sudden it seems like everything needs done, and everyone wants it now. Everyone reacts to situations and stress differently. In most cases it is personal perception that causes stress more than actual events. In other words it […]
There is a lot of conventional wisdom and advice that says to be successful you must set goals and work hard to achieve them. Although setting goals and hard work may be essential to success, there seems to be something missing. Others add that you should have a plan to achieve your goal, a map […]
Many of us are caught up in situations that are less than ideal, and sometimes Thanksgiving highlights the negatives rather than accentuating the positives. So instead of giving thanks for all we have, we dwell on the negatives. Perhaps I am an idealist and think that Thanksgiving should be like a Norman Rockwell setting in […]
Networking is one of the most fundamental elements of success and one most of us neglect the most. There are many axioms relating to the importance of building personal and business relationships. If we take a few minutes and think about it, almost everything we want must come from someone else. In this tightly interwoven […]
I used to believe there were magic interview words and phases like Ali Baba used to open the magical cave and gain access to the treasure it protected. I read a lot of books and articles on successful interviewing techniques, and never found any real magic words. In my senior year in college there were […]
This week there were several questions on Yahoo Answers related to working under adverse conditions. There were several categories, bad boss, nasty co-workers, critical adversaries, and the list goes on. Although the scenarios differ the common thread is a toxic situation with no apparent remedy. The most common answer posted in response to these questions […]
This week my heat pump broke. There is a light that indicates the probable cause of the malfunction. After some searching I found the flashing code on the thermostat pointed to a circuit board in the outside unit. When I took a look, the board in question appeared easy enough to change. A few plugs […]
For the past nine days I was on New England cruise to view the fall foliage and tour several ports of call. During the voyage, by chance, I met a semi-retired physiologist who specialized in helping patients who were having difficulties facing challenges. The bottom line to his clinical observations is many people in challenging […]
One of the greatest clichés is that there are no mistakes or failures only learning opportunities. While I do believe we learn from our mistakes, I am not sure that we always learn the most beneficial lessons. More often the lesson we take away is DON’T TRY THAT AGAIN!, instead of learning how to succeed […]
All of the career guidance literature I have seen over my years study says we all have a special talent, and if we develop that talent, work will seem like play and we will magically excel in the workplace. Sounds great! Problem is after 50 years in the workplace, I haven’t found my special talent. […]
Forging alliances at work may be the most beneficial strategic career move a person can make. Alliances are more than casual friendships, and are formed to advance common goals or interests. These bonds of common purpose can provide a shield against adversity, and a conduit for opportunity. Making and keeping alliances can improve and maintain […]
Confidence is a necessary skill that is often neglected in the development of a career strategy. There are different kinds and degrees of confidence, and finding the balance that best suits your personality and goals is often difficult. As many people suffer from over confidence as lack of confidence not only in themselves, but also […]
Most of us spend more time working than at any other activity, but we manage our working relationships less than in any other situation. In our personal relationships we usually seek and obtain a level of interaction that permits us to enjoy ourselves and grow our skills. Even in our casual relationships, like recreational activities […]
I am not sure exactly what causes it, but every year at the end of August or the beginning of September, I get the urge to go back to school. Perhaps it is the realization that summer is drawing to a close as the days get noticeably shorter and there are hints of autumn appearing […]
I re-learned a lesson the hard way this week. This summer I took a temporary job. When I was hired I was told the job had a definite term, and there would be no more work after the term was over. I accepted the job. There were several people who were hired to accomplish the […]
This week there was a lot buzz about Psychometrics and other job screening techniques. questionsIt is probably a sign of the times, as employers are flooded with applications for all available jobs. The idea of psychometric testing and correlating traits with aptitude and performance is becoming main stream. So how do you prepare for psychometric […]