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April 24, 2022
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The legislative session to pass this Bill is quickly coming to a close. Please don’t let our government turn their backs on the Vets who served their country in good faith. As the Vietnam era Vets who have borne the ill effects of their Service connected exposure to Agent Orange and other toxins for the past half century are losing their final battle, don’t abandon them again. No one left behind should be more than a slogan.

S.3003 – Comprehensive and Overdue Support for Troops of War Act of 2021117th Congress (2021-2022) |

This Bill covers many issues related to, not only Vietnam Vets who are being cheated out of much deserved VA benefits, and includes almost all veterans from before Vietnam forward. The American military men and women who are serving and served in our country are often given lip service of appreciation, but most of the admiration is simply that lip service. Unlike battle wounds exposure to toxic chemicals is a creeping silent killer. Many times the conditions eat away at a veteran’s mental and physical health like an invisible python squeezing the life and spirit out of it’s victims.  Many of the Vietnam era vets in their 70’s and struggling with disabilities that are know to be related to their military service, and the VA knowingly excludes them from the benefits they earned through their duty and dedication to the United States.  They deserve better. These are the troops that were shunned by the very county they served, no thank you no welcome home. Now, once again we are turning ignoring their plight as Congress hands out money and special treatment to many who have no allegiance not contributed to our Great Nation in anyway.

There is a way you can actually help the troops who served in Thailand and other surrounding countries during the Vietnam War. All of these troops were routinely exposed to Agent Orange during their tour of duty.  When I served in Thailand from August 1965 to August 1966 there was a lot of activity in SouthEast Asia that was never acknowledged.  When my tour was ended, I had a debriefing which among other things required me to sign documents not to disclose what happen during may tour. I asked others who served in Vietnam and surrounding countries, and not many said they had that type of debriefing.  Not sure why they picked me, but I honor my oath to secrecy. Some think that because of activities in these countries surround Vietnam were of a nature that would prompt the government to deny and use of Agent Orange in these countries. However, in spite of their efforts, there were official documents released that indicated the use Agent Orange on and around the bases in Thailand. That is when the VA adopted a very unfair stance towards the majority of troops who served on those bases, and just granted Presumed Exposure To Agent Orange Status to dog handlers, security personnel, and special cases. That is like saying that only a certain few get wet when immersed in the same swimming pool.  It is not right to ignore the troops who who bore the weight of those missions, by denying them the same PRESUMED AGENT ORANGE STATUS, as those who set foot in Vietnam or served on ship far out of harms way.

This is not a hand out. ALL the troops who set foot in Vietnam if only for a minute, and ALL those who were on Navy ships hundreds of miles from Vietnam have presumed Agent Orange exposure status. While only a special few who served in Thailand are considered worthy of VA benefits. It is like all were in the swimming pool, but only a few special ones got wet.  Please help to correct this. Those who served on air bases in Thailand during the Vietnam war suffer the same and many worse conditions than those who served in Vietnam or a Ship at sea. Email your senator and demand they pass S.3003 Comprehensive and Overdue Support for Troops War Act.

To locate your Senator go to https://www.senate.gov/senators/senators-contact.htm, and urge them to bring S.3003 forward and make into law.

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Could you benefit by hiring a career coach?

Do you ever think of how much help it would be to have a coach to help you make those tough decisions? Most of us are risk adverse, and it really holds us back from being all we can be. A life coach can make the difference of staying in our small comfort zone or moving ahead.

How to Find a Mentor and Why You Need One _ A good career move.

Mentors are people who have expertise and experience, and can help you shape your career, and improve your performance and professional reputation. Whether a friend, volunteer, or professional career coach, a mentor can objectively advise you in all areas. Some of try to decouple our personal and professional lives, but in this high tech world it is almost impossible to separate them. A facebook friend uses the media to sell products, and for a social media. The problem is that on her social page she used foul language, and posts and reposts things which many prospective clients may find offensive. This hurts her business. Although friends have hinted she should tone down her social page, she ignores them. A mentor would be more direct and tell her that her social facebook page is hurting her enterprise page. If she does not listen, the mentor will reinforce his advice with examples, and guide her to be more professional.

A mentor is not your boss. You do not have to listen or take a mentor’s advice, but a good mentor will be able to guide you over time to the proper path. Some times are egos will prevent us from seeing the wisdom in a mentor’s advice. A good mentor knows how to placate the ego and reach through our natural defense to criticism barriers. A good mentor is able to talk about any topic or problem with offending or embarrassing the client.

We all need mentors. Life is too short for each of us to learn everything through our own experience. In many cases it takes a long time to learn some things through experience, mainly because we don’t realize that we are doing something detrimental to our careers. I worked with a guy who thought he was a comedian. He played practical jokes, teased people, and told inappropriate jokes. He thought he was the life of the party and everyone liked him. When asked to tone it down he only laughed and try to make a joke of it. In essence he was killing and chances he had for advancement. All his hard work was negated by his behavior. The sad part is that his behavior was part of his success strategy.

How to Find a Mentor and Why You Need One
By Lindsay Olson
June 19, 2012
http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2012/06/19/how-to-find-a-mentor

One of the best ways to reinvigorate your work life, boost your job search, or help guide your career path is to work with a mentor. A mentor can help guide you through common problems and make recommendations on how to improve your job performance.
Talking to a mentor about your career can help you make better decisions about moving to a new job, taking a promotion or asking for a raise. Typically, you would work with someone with experience in your industry, as she would be best equipped to understand what it takes to succeed in your field. If you’re starting out in the accounting field, you might find a mentor who runs an accounting practice. Finding someone who has had a career path similar to yours can help give you the direction and advice on how you can succeed.
Mentoring programs differ one to the next. Some are very formal and meet every week or so. Others are more organic. Maybe you exchange emails and have lunch once every few months. You get out of a mentoring program what you put in. Make it worth both your time and that of your mentor’s.
How to Find a Mentor
Some companies have formal mentor programs, designed to help you achieve specific goals. If your company doesn’t have such a program, create your own. At networking events, look for seasoned professionals who take an interest in you. Search LinkedIn for qualified professionals with similar interests, group affiliations, and career paths.
Once you pinpoint someone, begin by building a relationship with them. After all, if you’re going to spend time with this person each week or month, you want to make sure it’s a good fit for both of you. Ask her to lunch or coffee so you can get to know her. And when you feel like the relationship is growing, ask for advice—this can help take the relationship to that next level.
It’s important that you give some thought beforehand to what you’re looking for in a mentor. Just as you’re looking for the right one, you need to sell yourself as a mentee. You’re asking someone to take time out of their busy schedule to expend brain energy on you, so prove that you’re worth it.
And remember that your mentor is doing you a favor. Always show appreciation for the time spent. If your mentor gives you job leads or makes a connection, make sure you follow up and let her know what came out of it.
Working with a mentor can help you develop professionally and forge new relationships that can move you on your way. Take your mentor’s advice, even if you find it difficult to swallow. After all, that is why you sought a mentor in the first place.

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Why do I need someone to help me with my career? The idea of hiring a career coach is often met with resistance. Your mind generates all kinds of excuses not to seek the help of a coach or mentor. What can they tell me about myself that I don’t already know?

A coach or mentor is not a shrink who is going to psychoanalyze your problems and blame your failings on a childhood trauma. While there are most likely physiological underpinnings to some of your perceptions, most of your career challenges are a product of the workplace. Learning to successfully navigate the workplace is difficult for most of us because we bring our social game to a very competitive sport.

What real preparation do have to cope with difficult bosses and coworkers? Most if not all of your experience is obtained from family and friends, and a controlled academic environment. There are some very good lessons to learned from this beguine environment, the rules are much different and do not translate to the rough and tumble workplace environment where your career and livelihood hang in the balance. A good coach or mentor has been through it and gained first hand experience in coping with all types of workplace challenges. Learning by trial and error is often a long lonely road where a mis-step can be career ending. A career coach can help you get where you want to go in your career.

Why Hire A Coach?
Ten Terrific Ways To A More Powerful Life

Bill Cole, MS, MA
Founder and CEO
William B. Cole Consultants
Silicon Valley, California
http://www.mentalgamecoach.com/articles/Article3_02.html

A tennis coach, golf coach, swim coach, personal coach, business coach, executive mentor, financial planner, personal trainer, sport psychology coach. What do all these coaches have in common? Why work with a coach? A coach won’t do the work for you, but here is how a coach can help launch you to the next level:

1. A coach can be a confidant. You can tell your coach things you wouldn’t tell others, because a coach is trained to understand and be non-judgmental.

2. A coach can help you see your blind spots. Everyone, even the coach, has personal areas that are out of view or awareness until someone points them out. A coach is perfectly poised to perform this critical function.

3. A coach can provide objective feedback. Other people may have agendas. Your coach has your best interests in mind in providing feedback and counsel to you.

4. A coach provides another set of eyes. Even the top performers in the world have coaches to help them see what they themselves can’t see.

5. A coach can keep you accountable. Your coach can help you take on more responsibility by having you report weekly on your accomplishments and initiatives.

6. A coach can be a sounding board. Your coach can be another set of ears as you talk about the things that are bothering you. As you hear yourself have a conversation new personal realizations emerge.

7. A coach can be another source of creative ideas. You can brainstorm and try out new ideas, behaviors and mental processes as your coach provides a safe place to experiment.

8. A coach can help you create your vision. Your coach can assist you in developing your plans for success based on your values, personal strengths, background and assets.

9. A coach can help celebrate your successes and be a source of strength when you fail. Your coach can be a supportive and nurturing source of energy.

10. A coach can help you process life. Life is a process and a good coach can assist you in reviewing and reframing what happens in your business, your sports and your life!

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